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Monday, March 11, 2013
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Anger, Laughter and Grace with Smushed Spanakopita
I’m 6 months away from having 3 teenagers, and boy do I feel
it.
Recently, an unnamed child threw a spanakopita triangle
across the living room because this child didn’t want to give a sibling a crab
Rangoon. For New Year’s Eve I had copied
my sister’s habit of buying up Trader Joe’s frozen appetizers and testing them
all. It was a failed
experiment—Trader Joe’s appetizers just don’t stack up against homemade—but the
kids were a lot less discriminating.
Anonymous child is not an infant--what's up with that? |
Starting New Years Resolutions 2 days later, including a new
diet, meant I couldn’t indulge in all my left over appetizers. I can’t stand wasting food, so rather than
increasing my own waistline, I feed all my delectable tidbits to others (selfishly, I don't care so much about increasing their waistlines)--hence spanakopita and crab Rangoons for after-school
snack.
When I told the child that the consequence of throwing a
spanakopita across the room was cleaning it up and not getting any crab
Rangoons at all, instead of politely saying, “Yes ma’am,” and
taking the punishment, this child took the whole plate of appetizers and
squished them between 2 hands—spurting spinach, feta, and crab all over my
just-cleaned countertop and floors.
I lost it.
Not only did this child waste food, this child wasted food
on CLEAN SURFACES. For an hour after my
house gets cleaned every 2 weeks I revel in true cleanliness. This child just cut that hour to minutes.
I sent the child to isolation until a 6 pm class.
“What about piano?” came back the sassy taunt.
Shoot. Forgot about
that 3:45 lesson. “Fine, until piano!”
20 minutes later, I peeked in on the child, who appeared to
be lying on top of the loft bed taking a nap.
In light of all the homework and reading that could have been happening,
I lost it again.
“What are you doing in bed when you have all this homework?”
I screeched.
“Mom.” A calm voice
emanated from behind the door. “I’m not
in bed.”
I pushed open the door a few inches. Sure enough, 2 feet away from me, the child
sat in chair, reading.
The child looked at me like I was an idiot, which of course
I am. We stared each other down until
the child started laughing, which got me started too.
So much for being mad forever.
Later, I overheard the child say to siblings, “But then Mom
started laughing, and you know when you get her to laugh she can’t be mad
anymore.”
Too true, I’m figured out.
I used to feel like this was just another of the huge
injustices in my marriage—when Scott got me to laugh, I couldn’t stay angry,
while I can’t shake him out of bad feelings.
After I complained about this multiple times, Scott finally said, “Why is
that bad? Isn’t it a grace for our
marriage?”
In the moment, it doesn’t feel like grace. I like being angry. I feel powerful. I feel justified. I feel RIGHT. Those feelings are so addictive that in the moment I don't care that in the long run my anger also leaves me alone.
So Scott’s right again.
Laughter transforming anger is a grace, a gift from God. Even when
I would rather be angry, justified, and right, God provides a
way for those who love me to break through--a mercy that means in the long run I'm not alone.
My wise husband learned that about me early.
Apparently, so have my kids.
Thursday, January 03, 2013
New Years Resolutions--Don't Eat these Ginger Molasses Cookies
Happy New Year Everyone!
For those of you who read this blog regularly, you'll see I've fallen off the blog-wagon for the past couple months. I'm supposed to move to a new blog on Patheos, but it's just taking time to set up which was the perfect excuse not to write.
But here we are in the first week of 2013, and it's time to make my resolutions, including those around writing. Now I don't know why I make New Years resolutions, because like 92% of other resolution-makers I always eventually fail. But there's something about a new year, a new opportunity, that always makes me want to try.
Meanwhile, I found this cool website statisticsbrain.com that has all these stats on New Years Resolutions including the Top 10 New Years resolutions for 2012
1. Lose Weight
2. Getting Organized
3. Spend Less, Save More
4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
5. Staying Fit and Healthy
6. Learn Something Exciting
7. Quit Smoking
8. Help Others in Their Dreams
9. Fall in Love
10. Spend More Time with Family
The site also cites that 8% are successful in achieving their resolution, 49% have infrequent success and 24% never succeed!
75% are able to maintain their resolution past a week, 71% past 2 weeks, 64% past one month, and 46% past six months. So as all the women's magazines say, you gotta make the resolution a habit.
Here goes:
Resolution 1: Re-start the Instinct-diet, Diabetic style and lose 8-12 pounds. Maintain that weight loss throughout the year, with the goal especially of keeping it off for my 30th Punahou high school reunion in June.
Note: As of yesterday, I started weighing myself on the Fitbit scale in the downstairs bathroom which always says I'm at least a pound heavier than the upstairs scale. I'm going for the most stringent measurement with more accountability because it syncs online and tells me my body fat percentage--an especially depressing fact when I lose weight but gain fat (which means I'm actually losing lean muscle mass).
Resolution 2: Exercise 5 hours/week, do 10,000 steps/day 6 days/week with hope of 7 days/week.
Note: This is a cheat resolution because I already exercise about that much. But you got to list something that makes you feel like you're accomplishing something! And I'm putting numbers on it, and adding the steps piece--very difficult in winter with multiple injuries I must say.
Resolution 3: Read the Bible in a year.
Note: This is actually Ling’s New Year’s Resolution, but I said I would do it with her. ACK! I've never been faithful at daily spiritual disciplines and so far we don't have a plan and TWO WHOLE DAYS have already gone by! We're slipping behind! So I just sent her 3 links to one year Bible reading plans and hope we'll commit soon.
Resolution 4: Blog regularly, at least once/week, preferably more.
Note: It's time to get back on the proverbial horse.
And on a random other note, as a New Year's present to all of us who won't be able to make these cookies for another 6 months in order to keep our New Years Resolutions, I'm including my Ginger Molasses Cookie recipe. This has been the most popular cookie of the season and Ling's friends have asked me to post it. Happy New Years girls!
For those of you who read this blog regularly, you'll see I've fallen off the blog-wagon for the past couple months. I'm supposed to move to a new blog on Patheos, but it's just taking time to set up which was the perfect excuse not to write.
But here we are in the first week of 2013, and it's time to make my resolutions, including those around writing. Now I don't know why I make New Years resolutions, because like 92% of other resolution-makers I always eventually fail. But there's something about a new year, a new opportunity, that always makes me want to try.
Meanwhile, I found this cool website statisticsbrain.com that has all these stats on New Years Resolutions including the Top 10 New Years resolutions for 2012
1. Lose Weight
2. Getting Organized
3. Spend Less, Save More
4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
5. Staying Fit and Healthy
6. Learn Something Exciting
7. Quit Smoking
8. Help Others in Their Dreams
9. Fall in Love
10. Spend More Time with Family
The site also cites that 8% are successful in achieving their resolution, 49% have infrequent success and 24% never succeed!
75% are able to maintain their resolution past a week, 71% past 2 weeks, 64% past one month, and 46% past six months. So as all the women's magazines say, you gotta make the resolution a habit.
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Here goes:
Resolution 1: Re-start the Instinct-diet, Diabetic style and lose 8-12 pounds. Maintain that weight loss throughout the year, with the goal especially of keeping it off for my 30th Punahou high school reunion in June.
Note: As of yesterday, I started weighing myself on the Fitbit scale in the downstairs bathroom which always says I'm at least a pound heavier than the upstairs scale. I'm going for the most stringent measurement with more accountability because it syncs online and tells me my body fat percentage--an especially depressing fact when I lose weight but gain fat (which means I'm actually losing lean muscle mass).
Resolution 2: Exercise 5 hours/week, do 10,000 steps/day 6 days/week with hope of 7 days/week.
Note: This is a cheat resolution because I already exercise about that much. But you got to list something that makes you feel like you're accomplishing something! And I'm putting numbers on it, and adding the steps piece--very difficult in winter with multiple injuries I must say.
Resolution 3: Read the Bible in a year.
Note: This is actually Ling’s New Year’s Resolution, but I said I would do it with her. ACK! I've never been faithful at daily spiritual disciplines and so far we don't have a plan and TWO WHOLE DAYS have already gone by! We're slipping behind! So I just sent her 3 links to one year Bible reading plans and hope we'll commit soon.
Resolution 4: Blog regularly, at least once/week, preferably more.
Note: It's time to get back on the proverbial horse.
And on a random other note, as a New Year's present to all of us who won't be able to make these cookies for another 6 months in order to keep our New Years Resolutions, I'm including my Ginger Molasses Cookie recipe. This has been the most popular cookie of the season and Ling's friends have asked me to post it. Happy New Years girls!
These are not my cookies, but what my cookies look like when they're done! |
Ginger Molasses
Cookies
(adapted from Rosie’s Cookie book)
Mix together in bowl & set aside:
2 c. all purpose flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1 Tbs. ground ginger
1 Tbs. ground cinnamon
¾ tsp. ground nutmeg
¾ tsp. ground cloves
½ tsp. ground allspice
¾ tsp. salt
Cream:
12 Tbs. (1 ½ sticks) unsalted butter @ room temp.
¾ cup white sugar
¼ cup dark brown sugar
Add to butter mixture & mix together until blended:
¼ c. dark molasses
Add & mix until incorporated:
1 large egg
Add flour mixture and blend on low speed for 15
seconds. Scrape the bowl and blend until
the dough is smooth, about 5 seconds more.
Roll a heaping tablespoon of dough into a golfball sized
ball, roll in:
1/2-1 cup turbinado sugar
Bake cookies 2 inches apart @ 375 until they are still
slightly soft and cracked on top, 15-16 minutes, a couple minutes more if you’re
baking frozen dough.
Note:
I normally make a double recipe and freeze the balls of dough so I can always have fresh cookies on hand. If you don't have turbinado sugar, you can roll the cookies in regular sugar, but the large crystals of turbinado are attractive, crunchy and tasty!
I normally make a double recipe and freeze the balls of dough so I can always have fresh cookies on hand. If you don't have turbinado sugar, you can roll the cookies in regular sugar, but the large crystals of turbinado are attractive, crunchy and tasty!
statistics on new years resolutions? what are the top ten news years resolutions of 2012 ? what is the success rate for new years resolutions ? |
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